Are you the "swinging single" who has all your paycheck to spend as you desire? Who lives your own life, never having to report to anyone when you do something, who works when you want to and plays when you want to? Are you the one everyone envies because you have control over your own life?
You're also probably the one who struggles to pay bills with one paycheck when all your married friends have two incomes. You're probably the one who hates social functions because you face going to them alone or with a "new friend" who is a gorgeous hunk, but in reality that hunk is either boring or unfamiliar and you envy those "couples" who always attend functions together, always knowing how the other will react.
You're probably the one who lives the "exciting life" when in fact you're bored and restless, wishing for some of the contentment your couple friends enjoy.
Or, are you perhaps part of the married couple that has everything going for you? Who has so much in common? Who has a couple of lovely kids? Who has all the nice things like a big home, new car, boat, ATVs, etc?
You're probably the one who envies the excitement of meeting a new man like your single friends do. You're probably the one who envies the freedom and the control of your life your single friends have. You'd love to just once spend a paycheck on you rather than the kids and necessities. You'd love a change rather than the contentment (maybe boredom sometimes) you think your life is today.
Why is it we never are satisfied with our lives? Have you noticed everyone feels someone else lives a better life?
I wonder how many of us really sit down and realize that we are the reasons we're happy -- or not. Everyone, no matter what lifestyle they live, faces problems and frustrations and depending on how they react, can be happy.
I know it sounds too easy, but it really is.
The following are my philosophies but I'd like to share them with you.
1. Decide what you want. It's up to you to take the steps to achieve it.
2. Don't blame others. You made the decision to be where you are in life. It's up to you to change it.
3. Where are you? Look closely at yourself.
4. Have you tried to improve or change? If not, why not?
5. Talk to people (friends, relatives, etc)
6. Do you really want things different?
7. Accept things -- go for it if you really want to change.
8. It's up to you to be happy --- make the decision to look at things positively.
I love these thoughts:
You can achieve anything but
sometimes it comes at a cost
When you say yes to something
You say no to something else!
Okay, I'm done. Have a great day -- decide to be happy. You deserve it!
K. R. Bailey